Original-Leading-324. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Not the A-hole. Throwaway Account. I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were ...Your parents placing blame on you as a CHILD for expressing how hurt you are by their neglect makes the situation even worse on their end. You are allowed to be hurt by their neglect, and allowed to express that their neglect is not okay or right. Your parents aren't at fault for her addiction, no one is.Husband, aunts and uncles, need to find a way to treat all kids fairly (not equally. Jenny is going to need more help just given her situation, but equally) Jenny it seems needs a more stable home where she doesn't feel like a burden- it isn't her fault her family dotes on her. januarysdaughter.I (17M) live with my parents and my younger siblings. We were very close until recently. My first mom died when I was 6 days old. She developed eclampsia in late stages of the pregnancy with me and she never recovered from it. A few weeks later my dad packed up and moved with me because he couldn't stay where they were planning a life together.Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if no one was around she ...And second,b it doesn't completely leave him out. I'd also leave your sister and BIL a snarky amount each, like $4.20. (I've had a trust and a will created and intentionally left my brother out of it, so I left him $1.00) I'd also recommend gifting your niece money while you're alive. Put it into an irrevocable trust.My [20m] older sister [32f] and her husband have an 8-year-old niece, who I adore. She’s smart, extremely precocious, and very funny. She’s also, simply put, very unfortunate looking. Neither her parents are ugly, but she received the worst possible combination of their features. Maybe in time she’ll grow into it with time, but currently ...NTA it's your wedding. Reply. Award. ZeroZipZilchNadaNone. •. NTA. You have a valid reason to not engage with her, which obviously means not inviting her. Tell your sister that you want her (your sister) and family there and will be heartbroken if they don’t attend. However, niece is not invited or allowed.Skyler was never on board with the plan. I heard her say it, my brother heard her say it, Ruth heard her say it, Macey heard her say it, Ruth's parents and my parents heard her say it, my other brother heard her say it. We all did. But my brother, Ruth and Macey decided to ignore this.Myself (26) & my partner (32) are child-free & wish to remain so. Both of our families know this. Recently, my partners brother & SIL passed away in a car accident leaving their son (12) & their daughter (9) behind. My partners parents have been watching them for months but they cannot do this full time as they are in their 70s & have bad health.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Not the A-hole. My (27F) older brother and SIL (both mid 30's) just welcomed their first child a year and a half ago, after YEARS of trying. After many failed attempts, SIL was told that she wouldn't be able to conceive due to a medical condition she has, they finally got pregnant. Since having my niece, the baby has been the center of ...The 13 yo is from her previous relationship, the 5 yo from her current husband. My niece's father skipped out on them and my sister had a rough time of it, so I helped them out early on. Her husband is well off so they're set now, but it's become very obvious to me over the years that he wishes my niece weren't in their lives.It's a freaking ice cream cone. I'm sure you've been bribed with things much worse than that as a kid. And if you were that worried about it, you could have just taken her to the ice cream shop after school and gotten her a cone then. I'm sure that would have made the separation anxiety a little easier. 3.Two years ago, my niece Lexie (19F) decided to study in a University in my city, so I offered to house her so my half brother (her father, 36M) wouldn't have to pay extra expenses on top of her tuition, or stress over her living with strangers. The courses she was taking finished a few weeks ago, and she was meant to leave a few days ago (we ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for not taking in my son and his family. Not the A-hole. My ex wife and I adopted our son when he was six. We had been his foster parents for three years and we wanted to make it official. He met his wife when he was 18. She knew he was adopted and she thought it would be good for him to get to know his biological parents."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! UPDATE: AITA pissed at what my wife said to my niece. First I want to thank everyone for their responses. It was helpful, even some I disagreed with. While things aren't perfect, they're both good kids and my wife is making amends for what she did. Since then my wife and I have been ...AITA for not treating my niece kindly and not allowing her into her own home? Not the A-hole. My 21 year old niece recently started dating Jim (also 21). While everyone was happy for her at first, me and her parents noticed that my 14 year old nephew was really nervous around him. We managed to get the reason out of him and it was absolutely ...Long story short, when my sister and niece arrived yesterday and after I helped them get settled in, I told them that there's only one rule that I have for staying in my house: My office is off limits. Fast forward a few hours and Everything's fine and dandy, I'm just sitting on the couch with my sister, watching a movie, until I get a call ...A few days after I made that post, my sister and I had a chat about what a messy situation it was. She told me she was ashamed to be bringing my niece up torn between me and her grandparents. She always wanted my niece to have grandparents, so she was clinging to an idea of them rather than the actual shit parents they are. Basically, my sister ...My action to be judged is screaming at and banning my SIL and niece from my home because they destroyed my houseplants. It might make me the asshole because they're family and I have taken my anger too far. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our …NTA. Your niece is so entitled. She expects you to host her wedding without even asking you first before telling everyone and then expects you to give up your whole house for it. Then expects whoever owns the land near you to just let her use without even asking.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Told my niece she shouldn't expect similar treatment as other niece 2. I feel like I was a bit too harsh.My brother Casey (32 y.o.) is much older than me (17 y.o.) He's married to my sister-in-law Mandy (36 y.o.) and they have two kids; My nephew Nick (3 ½ y.o.) and my niece Mya (2 y.o.) Mandy recently asked my parents if I could babysit Nick and Mya, since Mandy wanted to visit her mom and the original babysitter canceled last minute.37 votes, 30 comments. Background: my parents live 1 minute down the road, my sister lives about 20 minutes away, and in-law parents live a few hours…Original-Leading-324. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Not the A-hole. Throwaway Account. I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were ...AITA for not letting my niece call me mom? My husband (Joe, 37m) says I'm overthinking this, but I wanted to get an outside perspective. About a year-and-a-half ago my (33f) sister died, leaving my 9-year-old niece (Sara). Her father isn't in the picture, so Joe agreed to us raising her, even though neither of us wanted kids of our own.AITA for dropping my niece out the window when my SIL forced be to babysit : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales ...5 years old would be a good age for your FSIL to teach your niece that it's not polite to wear white to someone else's wedding. It's probably beyond time someone taught your FSIL that it's not polite to try to shoehorn her kid into a nonexistent wedding party too. Reply reply. Cholera62. •.They go to the same school and when the bus comes, the daughter will not wake my niece up. My brother and girlfriend start work early in the morning. I will come over after my shift and take niece into school. The daughter made a terrible statement about how my niece doesn't have a mother figure in her life and will not share hers. It's ...For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. AITA? For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. I'm just going to be direct and quick. I (M35) have 2 sisters that I'm close with, I also have a niece (Leah), Leah's 16 and after my ex wife decided to split up and divorce due to inferitility ...s4febook. AITA for getting my niece disqualified for a job? Not the A-hole. Disclaimer: I am Indian, we refer to our cousins children as "niece" and "nephew" in our culture. I (26f) have 4 aunts. My aunts all have grown children in their 40s+. About 15 years ago, my parents divorced.I invited my niece, my sister and my brother-in-law to my wedding but not the nanny. My sister is really mad about it. The reason I didn't invite the nanny is because of cost. My sister and brother-in-law are lawyers and they work at 2 of the biggest law firms in the entire country. They both made $200,000 right out of law school.In response, I decided to block my parents' numbers and social media accounts to create some space and peace for myself and my niece. Since then, they've been reaching out through mutual friends, accusing me of cutting them off and keeping my niece from her family. They're making me feel guilty for wanting to maintain the stable, loving ...AITA for telling my niece I didn't want to be her father and following through. Asshole. I'll admit I may not have reacted great, but I don't think I'm wrong overall. My sister and bil passed 5 years ago, and I was left with her children (Eric, 11, Melissa, 14 and Lilly, 7).I never wanted children, and honestly don't particularly like em.My house is a 14h+ flight away from the rest of my family, but since me and my partner have good paying jobs we are able to fly home for important holidays or events (we usually stay at my dad's or her parents' house). Two years ago, my niece Lexie (19F) decided to study in a University in my city, so I offered to house her so my half brother ...On Monday, Carnival Corps. pleaded guilty in federal court to polluting the oceans and violating probation. The massive cruise liner agreed to pay a $20 million penalty. On Monday,...AITA for giving my niece/nephew books that conflict with their parents' beliefs? My sibling is married with one child: "Jamie.". Both my sibling & I loved reading from a young age. When Jamie was in utero I gave my sibling & their spouse (hereafter S&S) about 20 books with "mommy & daddy" themes. I've continued to give books as gifts ...The company said it's fixed the issue, but won't say how many users are affected. Hours after security researchers at Citizen Lab reported that some Zoom calls were routed through ...NTA I wish I had been your niece. My parents insisted I get a real degree, and go to a real college. I ended up attending one of the top culinary arts schools because I thought it would make everyone happy. I was on academic probation and flunked out in my second trimester. What I wanted to do was sing, learn music theory, and try my luck on ...Seriously. Without your dad being present. Please talk to your school counselor or a teacher who you trust. Your school should have a counselor who you can talk to privately every week or so. Ask your dad to set up a therapist for you and be sure to tell the therapist that you want privacy in your sessions.But this dog I had planned for a year in advance. At the beginning of 2020 I got in touch with a breeder to get my dream dog a beautiful clumber spaniel. The litter was born 10 weeks ago so this has been a plan for a looooong time. I have told everyone and I decided on the name "Maybeline". I told my brother and his wife about the name and they ...My brother and my SIL have been married for 6 years. I love them both dearly. They adopted a little girl about a year ago. My parents were happy about this too, at first. They got really angry when my brother and SIL announced recently that their daughter would be their only child and they do not want biological kids. My mom and dad lost their ...My ex however is calling me an AH and says that i always favor Claire but thats not true so AITA? Edit: can yall stop assuming so many horribe things about Claire? she is just a kid and the girls fight like all siblings do. Sometimes its even Wendy who starts the fights. No one is bullying anyone here.My niece is three and my nephew is two and I love them to bits. I love playing with them, I love taking them out, I have pampered them. I am little afraid of babysitting as I might accidentally hurt or something. So, everytime I spend time with them, someone else is also usually present (one of her parents or one of my parents).Riley's parents were horrified by at the thought my parents would kick me out the second I turned eighteen and agreed to let me stay at their place as long as I graduated high school. Riley, her parents, and my boyfriend "Cole" (18m) came after midnight to help me take my belongings to their car and drive me to Riley's house.My parents weren't happy. Well, unfortunately, my sister 36 did not have this talk with her husband. When she was pregnant with their second child the doctor told them that the child would have many health issues. They prayed about it and went forward with the pregnancy. My niece is nine now. And my sister now has an ex-husband.My parents said they did some thinking and they are willing to let her stay under one condition: she needs to contribute and not just with household chores. She needs to start paying rent and after she gets a job, she needs to start looking for places of her own. My sister has a part time job at the university so she agreed to my parents ...My sister was a single mom to my niece Ellie for 8 years. Then she met her husband Rich and very quickly she ended up pregnant. Ellie really didn't know Rich at all by that point and she wasn't thrilled. My sister was of the opinion that Ellie would come around in time.10.6K Likes, 347 Comments. TikTok video from aitastories_lucy (@aitastories_lucy): "AITA for telling my parents they need to accept that their family will never be the same again? #AITA #question #reddit #redditstories #reddit tiktok #storytime #story #fyp #foryou #game #CapCut". aita for telling my parents they need to accept. original sound - aitastories_lucy.My parents weren't happy. Well, unfortunately, my sister 36 did not have this talk with her husband. When she was pregnant with their second child the doctor told them that the child would have many health issues. They prayed about it and went forward with the pregnancy. My niece is nine now. And my sister now has an ex-husband.I told my niece she was wrong to bully and pressure her brother to do what she thinks is best. Why this might be wrong is her parents have claimed to talk to her and I never asked them if I could. She's not my kid and ultimately is still a kid so it might be wrong for me to interfere in this. My actions might have been too harsh as well.Teacher making a big deal or it, then doubling down and also refusing to give directions for the assignment in time to actually allow you to help your niece complete the assignment is a major breach of niece's right to education. In short, yes, teacher got herself in trouble. You did right by your niece. Reply. Award.JacquesBN. ADMIN MOD. AITA for not giving my daughter her education fund money? Asshole. I (54M) have two children (23F and 21M) with my wife (52F). When the kids were young, my parents set up education funds for both of them, which was very generous of them. My wife and I always expected our kids to attend college and then graduate school, as ...Thailand’s ruinous rice subsidy program, which buys rice from farmers at rates 40% higher than the market, has been widely acknowledged as a disaster—by everyone, that is, except t...A medical school in Tokyo is the latest Japanese school to admit to doctoring the scores of applicants, mostly women. In what’s starting to seem like a national pattern, another Ja...I ALWAYS got paid for babysitting right from the moment I was 18. My dad still thinks my charge of $100/day from 7am-6pm is "too much" for babysitting 2 of my brothers even if one is in diapers. I used to do $50/day when I was in college bc of his guilting. If you can find babysitters cheaper and more trustworthy, go find them. You won't.(for the record, my reason for running the first time was caregiver burnout as my parents had me thoroughly parentified and basically being single teen mom to 4-6 other kids, some of whom had serious emotional issues, at any given time, and the second was because my abusive father made what I felt was a credible threat on my life.)OP's niece who he adopted and brought into his home asked to leave and go live with her Uncle. He didn't pawn her off, he obliged with her request. You are making OP out to be something he is not and making OP think he did a bad job. This niece was the one threatening and wanting to leave in order to hurt the OP.And you can’t just get buccal fat back. It’s often called the handsome Squidward surgery cause that’s the face it gives you. So bad and will make her look gaunt and almost like the living dead as time goes on. There’s a reason plenty of plastic surgeons won’t do it and those guys don’t have many ethics already.ADMIN. AITA for not giving my parents money. Not the A-hole. My (34M) parents (59,61) live a gluttonous lifestyle. They are both morbidly obese and have been for years. They know how unhealthy it is as their doctor has been telling them they need to lose weight since I was a kid. They don't care. In their words, they'd rather live a happy life ...A while back, I offered to watch my niece on those days as I work a typical 9-5 and have weekends off. My 4 year old niece is an awesome kiddo and I love spending time with her. My sister insists on paying me, despite me saying not to. I only declined money in the beginning because my niece is so go with the flow.AITA for giving my niece alcohol without her parents knowing. Asshole. It was my (29M) niece's 16th birthday yesterday and she had a small party/get together with the immediate family and her closest friends. My niece approached me and asked if she could try some of my drink which was jack daniels and cola so I poured her literally half a glass.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Thank god I recognized my mental health was spiraling and I made myself go to therapy. My therapist helped me implement an information diet on my parents relationship, was there for me in ways my parents weren't, and helped me work on my resentment/hate of my father and the situation I was stuck in. That was the worst part; feeling so trapped.6.5K votes, 666 comments. true. I cannot imagine the luxury of having a trusted family member care for a toddler for a week! My husband and I had no nearby relatives. We didn't go away for that long until the oldest of our three boys was ten, and we had a excellent part-time sitter to take on the job.My niece is now 15 and it turns out my sister has been heavily discouraging her from asking questions about her biological father by saying she's too traumatized to talk about it, implying it's a way darker story than it is. My poor niece has just been assuming she's the biological daughter of some monster.Self respect, and respecting others, is probably a good conversation to have with any kid this age who is just starting out dating. At the end of the day most teenagers that age are pretty much all going to be petty assholes who primarily care about themselves more than anyone else, some worse than others. Either way my point is that the basic ...AITA for refusing to lie to my niece? So bit of background, my brother has two children both under 10. Since the oldest was born I have been a constant support for both them and her. We have developed an amazing bond and I feel so blessed to call her my niece, this is now also the case with her younger sister.The post “AITA For Telling My Son It’s Not My Fault That He [Messed] Up And He Can’t Blame Me” first appeared on Bored Panda. A parent-child argument ensues when a …It's also his choice to not want the 3 of them together at his wedding. If his parents had any thought or respect for their child, then they'd realise he's uncomfortable with it and agree not to bring Dave to the wedding. To alienate their child by making their poly relationship a hill to die on for this event is crazy.For taking my niece away from her birth family, and admitting to favoring her over her twin sister. Help keep the sub engaging! Don't downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Subreddit Announcements. Follow the link above to learn moreYou're being generous enough letting your sister stay there. However, maybe your sister should stay with your parents while the kid stays with BIL. She's just going to guilt trip you for not letting her kid stay there constantly. And BIL might try to just dump the kid on you, anyway, if your sister is there. 1.For the past couple weeks, on my weekends I've had to watch my niece and nephew, while I had my friend over, so we couldn't really hang out. My sister and mother asked, more of a demand, that I watch the kids, and I just want my whole weekend to myself, so I said no, and then my mom was immediately batching and trying to guilt trip me, like loudly scoffing and loudly saying she'll take time ...After my niece "Claire" (19f) was born I was so happy to take her home but after three months my sister said that she and the father got back together and wanted their daughter back. Things did not go down well and since she was the biological mother, legally, she had every right to change her mind and our parents were on her side.Reddit Stories - Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are ... ... Video. HomeA bride has gone viral after admitting that she asked her photographer to edit her niece’s dress — which was white — in her wedding party photos. “So I (30f) got married, yay!HOWEVER, apparently, my cousin has this “very important piano recital” on my graduation day, and she absolutely wanted both my parents there along with HERS. I thought my parents would at least attend my college graduation, but nooooo. Apparently, their own niece’s piano recital is more important than their own daughter’s graduation. 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