My wife has told Numerous people That She has lost a hundred pounds. She is currently about 175 pounds overweight, weight that has steadily crept in over decades. She believes she has lost 100 pounds because she counts any decrease in her weight, even due to random fluctuations, as weight loss.However, this isn't about the money or flights - this is about communication. The two of you need to figure that out. Book the long one first class (US to Europe) and the others coach. Under 4 hours really isn't worth the price unless it is super cheap to upgrade. But again, communication. ESH because you both failed at that.My (32M) wife (30F) is a definite introvert. She's great when she socializes with people, all normal and fun, but she says her bucket fills up quickly and she gets a "social hangover.". I'm a huge extrovert and have many, many friends from my past that I work really hard to keep. I see those friends on my own sometimes but there's a ...When the OP's graduation from the police academy came around, he came up with a secret plan. "Fast forward 3 years and I was graduating the police academy. The graduation was set to begin at 10:00am and people could start showing up at 9:15.". "Well…knowing my wife and not wanting her to be walking in as the ceremony was beginning, I ...Yes, she did choose to do it while you said no, but her parents said yes and then backed out. This was a slow-motion well-planned crash, and you could have stopped it by hiring a sitter. You are the parent too. You don't get to drop your responsibilities just to win an argument with your wife. 80.My wife and I are in our mid 20s. I work without a degree and have a relatively stable position where I can grow if I put in the work. She works at a large corporation where she's an IC. Sales. She's known for a while (4-5 mo) her position might get her eliminated. She's applied for other sales roles but has not gotten them.87K views, 502 likes, 17 loves, 1.4K comments, 18 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Reddit Craziness: AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't need to be with her sick friend at the hospital?She isn't a goddamn child you can't tell her how to spend her money, you can only separate your own money from hers... by getting a divorce. ... AITA for telling my wife I am very disappointed in her and will exclude her from any decision making from now on? What a perfect way of saying "she won't leave me, cried the man who's wife left him" ...NTA. His actions have consequences And those consequences are that “Tom” is nothing more than your mothers husband. I’m sorry your mom isn’t supporting you. She has known the whole time that that is how he feels, and she allowed him to make you feel like an outsider. She failed you.If my GF isn't present I just refer to her by her name. The Princess nickname I only say to her. At the Fourth of July party at my parents I called her Princess once when she did …My aunt too. She's now a grandma to 2 little toddlers and is very happy with how her life has turned out. She often tells me stories of my uncle and I love hearing them and she tells them with a smile and with so much love and that's when I knew she was fine. Sometimes people have one love and that's ok.After insulting his sister a lot my ex asked if he cared about his sister at all, and he responded saying he didn't and that he didn't care if she lived or die. I don't support my son saying it, but I don't believe it's something he actually feels and said it in the heat of the moment. 7. u/Sea_Solid_7788.I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.My son told me he wishes he died instead of his mom and feels like my wife is trying to replace his mom. I told my wife that my son Aryan is not a replacement for our dead baby. She got very angry with me and called me an asshole but I'm just trying to protect Aryan because I know where his feelings are coming from. Help keep the sub engaging!Yes, ATA Put yourself in her shoes. If she were to say that to you, you’d probably feel bad about yourself. Hearing your partner be unhappy with your physical appearance is upsetting. I don’t see an issue with being concerned for your partners health, but it being based on personal sex appeal is incredibly selfish.Stop pressuring me." Not long after she got pregnant with our son, and then while he was still very young she got pregnant with our daughter. A few months after she was born when I asked my wife what her plans were job-wise she finally just said "I don't want to go back to work. You make enough for us to get by. Just let me be a wife and mother."She isn't a goddamn child you can't tell her how to spend her money, you can only separate your own money from hers... by getting a divorce. ... AITA for telling my wife I am very disappointed in her and will exclude her from any decision making from now on? What a perfect way of saying "she won't leave me, cried the man who's wife left him" ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: The action that should be judged is that I had told my sister that it's not my fault I'm prettier …When I came out, my mother was absolutely devastated. She said terrible things at first, and we had a rough couple of years. But she never let me doubt that she loved me, and over time she came to accept me. She is no longer homophobic; she’s close to my wife; and she and I are closer than we ever have been. My mom’s also getting older.My (32M) wife (30F) is a definite introvert. She's great when she socializes with people, all normal and fun, but she says her bucket fills up quickly and she gets a "social hangover.". I'm a huge extrovert and have many, many friends from my past that I work really hard to keep. I see those friends on my own sometimes but there's a ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Because I told my wife she needs to take responsiblity and be the one to tell me when and where she is going.The only heart surgeon available has a date with his wife - he isn't on call, but they ask him to come in. He can come in or he can turn you down. If he comes and does the surgery as soon as possible - his wife is hurt, but your heart is in the best condition it can be all things considered, and your family gets to keep you.I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.My wife has told Numerous people That She has lost a hundred pounds. She is currently about 175 pounds overweight, weight that has steadily crept in over decades. She believes she has lost 100 pounds because she counts any decrease in her weight, even due to random fluctuations, as weight loss. Yes, ATA Put yourself in her shoes. If she were to say that to you, you’d probably feel bad about yourself. Hearing your partner be unhappy with your physical appearance is upsetting. I don’t see an issue with being concerned for your partners health, but it being based on personal sex appeal is incredibly selfish.About Press Copyright Contact us Creators Press Copyright Contact us CreatorsYes, she did choose to do it while you said no, but her parents said yes and then backed out. This was a slow-motion well-planned crash, and you could have stopped it by hiring a sitter. You are the parent too. You don't get to drop your responsibilities just to win an argument with your wife. 80.The part that's most problematic for me is wife completely refusing to even address it or be willing to talk about it. If she's asexual she needs to find another asexual partner. Sex drive is a compatibility thing and they aren't compatible if she doesn't want to ever have sex and isn't willing to talk about why or try to work on it.The latest drama on the AITA subreddit revolves around an a**hole mother-in-law, and the unfortunate (but reasonable!) placement of her daughter-in-law's a**. The DIL said she and her husband ...That being said, ex wife can't just walk out, come back like nothing happened, and then threaten custody with the fact that her girlfriend is a lawyer. She walked out, had minimal contact for two years, and has to reap the consequences— but those consequences should never, under any circumstances, be homophobia.YTA. Your daughter sure sounds gifted to me but I guess it depends on your definition of "gifted.". Your daughter is smart, hard working and lucky enough to have a mother who tutored her in math and physics to gain her an extra edge. Her knowledge counts even if she had to work at it instead of being born knowing.Honestly, your wife sounds like a narcissist. She's not happy unless she's the centre of attention or has managed to sabotage or upset someone/everyone around her. At which point she can play the victim/be the centre of attention because people are mad at her. She's creating drama on purpose and sounds toxic.Our daughter wanted a mini pizza and so she asked me to make her one. I was, and then my wife said me too because I’m a princess too. I told her no, you’re an adult not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad mom is a princess too.”I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I'm a princess too'. I told her no, you're an adult, not a princess. I'll make you one, but you're an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said "dad, mom is a princess too.". I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn't want to have to explain to her.AITA for blocking my narcissistic sister from my life because she threatened the custody of my bonus daughter. 132. 28. r/TwoHotTakes. Join. • 11 days ago.Yta. You aunt is literally godfathering you by paying and supporting you where your parents cannot. Aunt is your 3rd parent which is why she's being asked for input and respected. You are just barely an adult and it's ok to push back against authority, but you need to understand the reality of your situation here.The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. Celebrity.Sep 27, 2023 · I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her. it is ABSOLUTELY a struggle. but your wife is an adult, and has to communicate what she can and cannot do. i know my fiancee wants to help me around the house, but she's made it clear that it isn't always possible for her, and as much as the workload sucks, i feel a lot less resentment when she just tells me straight up that she can't finish ...NTA. Your step mom needs therapy for the way she spirals after a perceived rejection. It’s your wedding, stick to your guns, because you’re right. She ISN’T a parent of the groom and she’s not your mom. Copy-bot #2.I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I'm a princess too'. I told her no, you're an adult, not a princess. I'll make you one, but you're an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said "dad, mom is a princess too.". I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn't want to have to explain to her.AITA I'm married. My wife's mother insists she visits her regularly (every week) and stays the night. This happens very frequently (around every other week now) and usually my wife pops over Saturday morning and comes back late Sunday night. It's about a 45 mins drive away.Recently my wife came across a bunch of internet information and has decided that she is has ADHD. Now, she probably does. I mean, it is extremely likely and explains a lot. But i am sick of hearing that everything is 'because of [her] ADHD". It is like personal responsibility has gone out the window.This amount of time on the treadmill at this speed, then over here to these machines for 20 minutes, then over here, etc. It was the guidance and motivation I needed. This could be your wife's issue. That you are not the right kind of supportive, that this isn't a competition and that she needs guidance from someone that isn't you.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Implying that my future sister-in-law will be cheated on by my brother-in-law no matter what she looks like. 2. His cheating hadn't been brought up yet, so perhaps it was a low blow after she'd insulted my wife's appearance.STEP. It's factually accurate to say that you're not really sisters, and literally accurate from how your stepsisters have treated you. NTA. Even were she 100% biologically your "real sister" she has not demonstrated any of the traits you expect from someone who expects to be treated as a real sister.AITA for telling my wife that she isn’t a princess? r/AmItheAsshole • 5 hr. ago • u/iScreamAtKittens. 9 awards.Dressing up as a specific character is not racism. Dressing up as an ethnicity as your whole costume on the other hand would be a different story. annecara • Partassipant [2] • 3 hr. ago. If you weren't making fun of Chinese/Asian culture and weren't in yellowface or have your eyes taped back, NTA.The end result was not pretty. We now have 6 other nephews and nieces, and while my wife is very close with all of them, she isn't that close with James (he is 18 now). He has noticed this a lot and finally he asked me and Will, the real reason why my wife isn't as close with him (We gave him a watered down version).AITA for telling my wife that she isn’t a princess? 6579 points • 2722 comments. Vote. 0. 0 comments. Best. Add a Comment.Well, here's a fun dilemma for you: a dad was so 'off-put' by his wife's role-play with their young daughter, he came to Reddit for support. Instead, he got something else. "AITA (Am I the A-hole) for telling my wife that she isn't a princess?" u/Efficient_Expert_686 writes: For the past several months, she has been eerily acting like a child.Sep 27, 2023 · I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her. Image source: u/Suspicious_Pair_4940. "AITA for telling my daughter that I won't be attending her wedding?" - this father took to one of Reddit's most judgmental groups to ask its members if it was wrong of him to reject his daughter's wedding invitation because she didn't invite his wife and kids. The post managed to garner over ...Today is Valentine's Day my brother booked a table for 7:30 he told me tell my wife it's for 7 (lots of my friends started to this it's really sad) I get home at 4:45 she is not dress son (11 month) is not dressed so I ask oh are we getting a baby sitter yeah her sister who lives a 30 minutes drive ok no problem but this is we're it ...AITA for telling my stay at home wife not to hire a housekeeper. My wife is a stay at home wife who looks after our two kids. The other day she said shes thinking of hiring someone to pickup around the house. Both of our kids are in elementary school from 8-245. I see no reason to hire one but she said she's "busy raising the kids".Me (35m), my wife (34f), and our two kids (3 and 5) live in a VHCOL city. I made about 5x as much as my wife, so we do pretty well. If my income were the same as my wifes we would not be able to afford to live in our city. My job is pretty low stress, about 35ish hours a week with the only requirement that I be "on call" for 1 week out each month.In her defense, she tries to buy nice gifts for my dad (but not nice like a gold chain). This has been going on for a while and last night was just straight forward rude. NTA, she DID disrespect your father, and you. She isn't entitled to anything from him. Your wife's fucking rude, entitled and disrespectful.AITA for being honest with my daughter regarding her coding ability. I (36M) am a web developer for many years now and have a lot of experience. About a year ago my daughter (9F) suddenly decided she wanted to learn coding. She asked me to teach her.The part that's most problematic for me is wife completely refusing to even address it or be willing to talk about it. If she's asexual she needs to find another asexual partner. Sex drive is a compatibility thing and they aren't compatible if she doesn't want to ever have sex and isn't willing to talk about why or try to work on it.Telling anyone to calm down, not just a woman, never works. Specificallly telling a woman to “calm down” when rightfully upset is a special sort of misogyny that harkens back to the long, dark history of women being infantilized and dismissed as …No f in way tell your wife you won't be disrespected in your home by her father, if her father can't be civil then he can stay out of the house. NTA. He should have done a better job at teaching your wife to wear a coat in cold weather if he's that bothered. Your right your not your wife's babysitter your her husband.The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. Celebrity.As a parent, you don't move down the block without telling your kids. Let alone to an entire different country. You are going to ruin the relationship between your wife and her daughter. Although, I would say you're 49% an AH in this story and your wife is 51% an AH for going along with your idea.As a parent, you don't move down the block without telling your kids. Let alone to an entire different country. You are going to ruin the relationship between your wife and her daughter. Although, I would say you're 49% an AH in this story and your wife is 51% an AH for going along with your idea.op's gf: i would only change the thing that makes u suffer so it would stop hurting u. op: here is a laundry list of things i would change about ur appearance. op's gf: 2 can play at that game. op (with no irony or self awareness): she was so hurtful i cant believe it. 2K.She’s also probably upset that the time and energy involved in Emma’s precluded having another child. Some people really don’t handle it well when their plan for their family gets derailed. However, this is definitely your wife’s issue, and her problem to deal with, and you’re right that she’s being a bad mother.Nah she was being an asshole. It's fine she woke him up for work but she is an asshole for expecting him to say happy birthday literally moments after waking up and answering her questions about why he isn't heading into work while he is half asleep. This isn't a communication problem. This is his wife is an asshole problem.I don't think the wife should have taken the dresser without getting a replacement ready or moving the child's clothes into a closet first; just leaving the clothes on the floor isn't a good solution. If she'd done that, then I don't see any issue with her moving the dresser and using it for the new clothes.My MIL disappeared (thought she was smoking) and came back 10 minutes later with chicken nuggets. I will never forget this kindness. You and your mom have a chance to be kind, generous and accepting and instead you told your wife to stay home. Here’s hoping her next husband is nicer.Me (45M) and my wife (47F) have three kids (18F, 16M, 12F). All three of them are creative types. My eldest son draws and does some 3Dmodeling and does commissions and was making an ok amount until this game developer commissioned a bunch of assets from him, the guy paid a lot and the exposure has meant that his commission has constantly been full and he's making a lot more.AITA for telling my wife she isn't doing enough to confront her coworker? #shorts#askreddit #stories Please L I K EPlease C O M M E N TPlease S U B S C R I B...He allowed Brenda to be abusive towards you. You don't need to work things out with an abuser. If he doesn't have your back it means he agrees with the abuse. Don't feel like an AH. Your father might be your father but that doesn't mean he is a mature person. It sounds like he has to work a lot on himself.Mar 3, 2023 · When she achieved her goals, she blatantly told OP that she was never interested in salvaging their marriage and that she was only using him. After the divorce proceedings, custody of the kids was split 50/50, and the ex-wife had to pay child support, as she was earning much more than him, thanks to her education and career change. You aren't an asshole for standing by your morals. Your wife telling you loyalty to her is more important than your morals is a serious red flag. Morals should be a fundamental part of your core. Your wife thinks it should be normal for you to ignore your morals so she doesn't have to face the guilt of her own actions.Sep 27, 2023 · I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her. She's had these cats since she was a young child, that alone devastated her. She told me, "I don't want to turn 18, I don't want to celebrate my birthday.". I picked the argument back up with my wife at that point. I said, "Our daughter isn't moving out until she decides on her own terms because she is more important than you or ...AITA for telling my sister she is better off being infertile? Despite trying to conceive for years and having no success with her husband every month, my sister (31F) felt like a supreme disappointment. Her head knew she was not at fault, but she was saying that not being able to give her husband "the gift of children", which is seen to most ...You telling her that she doesn't have to do it is the opposite of you putting in any effort. " She doesn't expect any participation from me, but you can tell how exhausted she is.". Uh, dude, participate. You see she's exhausted, help! That's what marriage is. You sound unappreciative and self entitled.Thank you very much. I also think my niece talked to my wife and not to me, because my wife isn't home as much so she is always inclined to be the good cop for the kids. And I have to be bad cop a lot during the day, because well kids will want ice cream for breakfast and TV for 10 hours, but someone's gotta say no.Yta. You aunt is literally godfathering you by paying and supporting you where your parents cannot. Aunt is your 3rd parent which is why she's being asked for input and respected. You are just barely an adult and it's ok to push back against authority, but you need to understand the reality of your situation here.I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.AITA for telling my landlord she can't stay at our house unexpectedly? The title is slightly mislead, Princess_Delphinium Partassipant [1] • ... always saying "You don't under, Really, it's not laziness what your wife is saying. And the fact you instant, AITA for telling my wife that she lives vicariously through our daughters? I feel so gaslighted about the who, So My wife Liz and I have been married for 7 years. we have presch, So her son has no one in your home to balance out your wife's controlling behaviour whereas the, One time when my wife and I were living out of state for really high-pressure jobs, he asked to drop his dog o, And here comes the asshole part. I go: "Well, yeah,, This is my take away as well. OP isn’t a parental figure at a, Sep 27, 2023 · I was, and then my wife said 'me t, It pissed me off so much. 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